The Best Way To Have The Fairest Divorce Possible For All Parties Involved

Hello, my name is Carl. Last year, I divorced my wife. We had been married for several years but our love had finally died when I found out she was having an affair with our neighbour. I moved out and contacted an attorney. As well as organising the division of our property we also have to work out the custody arrangements for our 3 children. My wife wanted full custody but I wasn't happy about this. My attorney helped me to put a case together to present to the family court. In the end, the judge said I should have custody of the kids. I was so happy. I decided to start this blog to offer advice and help to others.

The Best Way To Have The Fairest Divorce Possible For All Parties Involved

The Best Way To Have The Fairest Divorce Possible For All Parties Involved

16 June 2020
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Divorce is never an enjoyable experience, but it also shouldn't be one that mars the whole previous relationship and good memories forever. Going through the process of a divorce can be very tricky as most people want it kept as low-key as possible but quickly realise that they do need expert help. That is why it is always best for both of you to involve a divorce lawyer as soon as possible. Here are a few reasons why involving lawyers from the beginning is the best option for everyone.

Understand What You Want 

A divorce lawyer is very good at getting to the crux of your needs and getting you to really think about what you want out of this divorce. They will make you sit down, take stock of your situation and plan a way forward with the resources you deserve. Instead of going into a divorce proceeding with little to no preparation, divorce and family lawyers will set the stage early, and from there the divorce can become more of a negotiation until a fair settlement is reached. This is particularly necessary if children are involved, as you want everything done by the book when it comes to their futures.

Put The Children First

If there are children involved, then both party's divorce lawyers will prioritise the kids' needs ahead of all monetary and financial assets. In most cases, visitation and scheduling is fairly easy to organise as the families themselves understand who should live where and when it is convenient for everyone to meet. When disagreements do happen, you want an expert in family and divorce law on your side to let you know what the realistic chances are if you go to court. This helps you avoid any painful legal battles that are fruitless from the beginning, while also ensuring that the child's needs are still front and centre. 

Out Of Court Resolutions

Perhaps the most valuable feature of a divorce lawyer is that they can help guide you through the process of settling a divorce outside of a courtroom. Courts take a long time to do anything, and if you and your ex-partner can come to a healthy arrangement that both parties agree too, then you can simply file a consent order. Otherwise, you can also go to mediation or any number of other types of divorce settlement processes. This will also help save you a lot of money in addition to expediting the whole process. 

Reach out to a divorce lawyer for more information. 

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Carl's Divorce and Child Custody Blog

Hello, my name is Carl. Last year, I divorced my wife. We had been married for several years but our love had finally died when I found out she was having an affair with our neighbour. I moved out and contacted an attorney. As well as organising the division of our property we also have to work out the custody arrangements for our 3 children. My wife wanted full custody but I wasn't happy about this. My attorney helped me to put a case together to present to the family court. In the end, the judge said I should have custody of the kids. I was so happy. I decided to start this blog to offer advice and help to others.

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